cmd/compile: fix WriteFuncMap for new ABI.

replaced old type-based logic with new abi-based logic;
earlier versions of this CL compared them for equality.
For not-in-a-register, they match everywhere tested.

also modified GetFrameOffset to make it more like the one it replaces;
the LocalsOffset is subtracted.

Change-Id: I65ce7f0646c493c277df6b6f46e4839a0d886ac9
Reviewed-on: https://go-review.googlesource.com/c/go/+/302072


Trust: David Chase <drchase@google.com>
Reviewed-by: Cherry Zhang <cherryyz@google.com>