cmd/compile: add debugging mode for poset

Add an internal mode to simplify debugging of posets
by checking the integrity after every mutation. Turn
it on within SSA checked builds.

Change-Id: Idaa8277f58e5bce3753702e212cea4d698de30ca
Reviewed-on: https://go-review.googlesource.com/c/go/+/196780


Run-TryBot: Giovanni Bajo <rasky@develer.com>
TryBot-Result: Gobot Gobot <gobot@golang.org>
Reviewed-by: Keith Randall <khr@golang.org>
Reviewed-by: David Chase <drchase@google.com>