cmd/go: mark trace flows between actions

This could help make it easier to identify blocking
dependencies when examining traces. Flows can be turned
off when viewing traces to remove potential distractions.

Updates #38714

Change-Id: Ibfd3f1a1861e3cac31addb053a2fca7ee796c4d7
Reviewed-on: https://go-review.googlesource.com/c/go/+/248322


Run-TryBot: Michael Matloob <matloob@golang.org>
TryBot-Result: Gobot Gobot <gobot@golang.org>
Reviewed-by: Bryan C. Mills <bcmills@google.com>